This point never seems to drive home to the pro-porn crowd: pornography is very, very real.
The ease with which pro-pornography people describe porn as ‘fantasy’ shows very clearly that they don’t see the women in it being gagged/slapped/painfully penetrated as human. They talk like porn is a sexual image inside their head, instead of being basically filmed prostitution. So when a feminist says ‘I hate porn, porn is rape, porn is misogynistic’ they think she’s accusing them of a thought crime. Because the women they’re watching being abused aren’t even real to them.
Newsflash, ‘sex-positive’ people: dudes’ ugly little fantasies that get them hard don’t matter. The living, breathing women who are in front of the camera do.